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Brenda Ruth Stafford

May 2, 1946 - March 10, 2022

Brenda Stafford “Grammy”, age 75, passed away on March 10, 2022, in Bartlesville, Oklahoma. She was born to Garland Shannon and Ruth (Marshall) Shannon, in Berkeley, California on May 2, 1946. She graduated from Muskogee High School and her chosen career led her to work as an Accountant at Phillips Petroleum Company. On January 7, 1966, Brenda married the love of her life Nick Stafford. She enjoyed shopping, spending time with family and friends, gift exchanges and laughter! Although She had many accomplishments with Phillips Petroleum Co., her most fulfilling rewards enjoying life with her grandchildren. Brenda was preceded in death by her husband Nick, and her parents Garland and Ruth Shannon. Brenda “Grammy” is survived by 3 children Shellie Affolter and her husband Ed of Chicago, Illinois, Wes Stafford and is wife Jeanette of Columbus, Ohio and Michelle Stafford of Bartlesville, Oklahoma; seven grandchildren Trey and Sydney Affolter, Jessica, Bridget and Whitney Stafford, Justice Joseph and Reagan Engles. Memorial services will be held at a later date.

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Brenda Stafford “Grammy”, age 75, passed away on March 10, 2022, in Bartlesville, Oklahoma. She was born to Garland Shannon and Ruth (Marshall) Shannon, in Berkeley, California on May 2, 1946. She graduated from Muskogee High School... View Obituary & Service Information

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