Wayne Calvin Callaghan

Wayne Calvin Callaghan, age 58, of Bartlesville, Oklahoma, passed away peacefully on October 1, 2024. Born on November 30, 1965, in Boksburg, South Africa, Wayne lived a life of compassion, laughter, and love. Wayne’s middle name, Calvin, was a testament to his deep love of theology; he could quote scriptures with ease and passion. His journey took him from formal schooling to proudly serving in the South African Air Force, where he showcased his athleticism as a member of the Air Force rugby team. In 1991, Wayne relocated to Oklahoma, where he earned a Bachelor of Arts in Theology from Bartlesville Wesleyan College. There, he married, Valarie Lehman Callaghan, and together they raised two beautiful children, Abigail Jane Bruner and Lane Calvin Callaghan. Wayne ran a successful construction company for over 30 years, building not just homes but a legacy of kindness and generosity. A gifted musician, Wayne loved playing the drums and could scratch out a tune on the grand piano. He led worship at his church throughout his high school years, sharing his love for music with all who knew him. Wayne had a special way of expressing love through gift-giving. Wayne’s life was marked by compassion, empathy, and an infectious sense of humor. He faced hardships with remarkable strength and resilience. He is survived by his daughter Abigail and her husband Troy of Nashville, Tennessee, and his son Lane of Fort Worth, Texas. He leaves behind his parents, Annette and Winston Callaghan of Port Shepstone, South Africa; his sister, Reneé Terrill, and her husband Kevin of Broken Arrow, Oklahoma; niece Morgan Coldwell, her husband Jeff, and their daughters Amelia and Addison; and nephew Aaron Terrill and his wife Courtney, along with their son Judah of Austin, Texas. He was preceded in death by his sister, Trudy Callaghan. A celebration of Wayne’s life will be held at 2 PM on Sunday, October 6, at First Wesleyan Church in Bartlesville, Oklahoma. All are invited to join the family in honoring his legacy, which will endure in the lives he touched—a testament to his kindness, humor, and gentle nature. Memorial Flower Delivery Details: First Wesleyan Church Friday, October 4th between 9am and 4pm Sunday, October 6th between 8am and 1pm 1776 Silver Lake Road Bartlesville, Oklahoma, 74006 918-333-4760 Or Stumpff Funeral Home Saturday, October 5 between 9am and 1pm 1600 SE Washington Blvd Bartlesville, OK 74006 918-333-4300

Wayne Calvin Callaghan

November 30, 1965 - October 1, 2024